Relationships and Mariage

How come the issue of boyfriend and girlfriend among most people is never centered within God, but come marriage nd then suddenly God. How can this be, we find that most couples have no reference for God the creator but when they have to get married then suddenly God and the church. Does not this show that marriage is just a formality then, for God said when the two are joined together they must teach their children his ways. However we do not find this happening in these days. So my hypothesis is that given these facts, i deduce that marriage to some people is just a formality, it like we grew knowing about marriage and hence people also marry. The esense of marriage is lost. I believe marriage was made by God who is the one who joins the two together when they get married. Now how come their relationship is not centered within God, but when they have to get married suddenly the Lord. Its a contradiction i talk of marriage but i do not center my relationship within God (God is not my reference, most of the time is feelings). God have mercy on us for treating his holy decree "Marriage" as a formality. a formality might also imply what we normally do everyday, greeting people, some people greet just for the sake of greeting.

Our Country

The problem in South Africa i believe is mainly embedded on education and professionalism. We have lack of engineers on our ministers and the cabinets. In our rural communities, there would be tenders handed out worth 2 million or so, either to construct roads or a community hall. The money would be spent however what was supposed to be would be incomplete. This is clear indication of incompetent personnel an act of unprofessionalism. One possible reason that comes out is that whoever was responsible to employing the contractors lacked the expertise in the area and probably believed all the feasibility results presented to them. Hence the common excuse, "the money was not enough". Another possible reason that i am not interested in entertaining is, people who are only eager to enrich themselves. For the sake of the well being of this country i will like to disbelieve the later reason however ever though tempted. We need well trained professionals i propose mainly engineers within our ministers, the measure of election should not be based on how the other one performed during the struggle against apartheid, such a measure is outdated and primitive. Look at China 90 % of the ministers are engineers and just look at how that country's economy is a danger to other economies. South Africans let us wake up, and put more value in education than politics.

Nature

JHB had a nice weather yesterday (16 Nov 2008), plus no one at wits, it was all nature disposed, only sounds of trees and the birds. Nature's essence, how unique can things be ?

Lets listen and obey even the simple things

I lied on the bad thinking that my eyes would never be closed, i had left something on the stove only to be awaken @ 4 a.m by some funny smell, it was the materials that made the bottom part of the port. This was my second port that i smoked. My mother did tell me never to leave anything on the stove if i was going to tough my bed. Now i am left with one port. Thanx to my intelligence i thought i understood myself!.